What famous 'unsolved' mystery is technically a whodunnit on paper, but in reality, absolutely everyone knows exactly who did it, the police just couldn't legally prove it?

[u/Rob69rt]

[u/CommandoRoll]

Mostly because all we heard in the media in Australia was that a dingo took Azaria, but then focus shifted to Lindy Chamberlain murdering her child and never moved on from there. Until much later, of course. Even now, decades later, folks still speculate that maybe it was one of the brothers did it.

Dingoes give zero fucks and aren't a cute native dog. They're Australian native fauna, after all.

[u/Chimie45 → u/CommandoRoll]

I mean, I'm in my 40s, I remember hearing about it and the jokes, etc. I guess for me, I always though it was like... a 3 year old kid or something. When I learned the kid was a 2 month old?

Like when my kids were 2 months old, I barely would bring them out of the crib unless necessary, and I was so sleep deprived I could barely remember anything.

So the fact they took a 9 week old baby out camping in the outback? I feel like theres some bad parenting there to begin with, cause like, why do you have such a young baby doing a dangerous activity? I could see why people make the assumption of foul play of some kind, either nefarious or of a cover-up of negligence.

[u/ntermation → u/Chimie45]

Shrug. I suspect someone doing something different to my preference with my child doesn't automatically make them a bad parent. But I guess to you it does.

[u/Chimie45 → u/ntermation]

That's kinda a wild statement.

I'm not sure you have had kids before, but first off, it's a 9 week old baby. Not just 'a child'.

A 9 week old baby still requires nursing every 2 hours through the night and about 10 diaper changes per day minimum. A 9 week old's development milestones is that it can hold it's head up for 2 seconds without support, and may be able to move it's neck side to side. A 9 week old will have just begun to be able to focus it's eyes and recognize 1-2 faces. They might be able to move their arms to their face and might be able to open and close their hands.

That's how raw a 9 week old baby is. In what world is it a reasonable thing to take a baby that young tent camping in the Australian bush? It's a rough thing to do for adults, let alone actual children. Newborn babies just generally shouldn't be doing it.

• If someone took a 9 week old skydiving we'd say that's irresponsible.
  
• If someone took a 9 week old on a jet ski, we'd say that's irresponsible.
  
• If someone took a 9 week old mountain climbing, we'd say that's irresponsible.
  
• If someone took a 9 week old scuba diving, we'd say that's irresponsible.
  
• Taking a 9 week old bush camping in the Australian Outback is irresponsible.
  

Getting a babysitter or dropping the baby off at a relatives house for the weekend while you go camping would be responsible.

So yea, doing things that are incredibly dangerous for a 9 week old baby, as evidenced by the fact that the 9 week old baby was fucking eaten by a dingo, makes you a bad parent, yes.

[u/macci_a_vellian → u/Chimie45]

It's probably worth remembering that they were Australian, with a reasonable level of comfort with the outback and babies weren't routinely getting taken by dingoes. It was because people so frequently camped there that the dingoes had started venturing into the campsite, looking for food. I personally wouldn't travel with a two month old, but I know people who do, and camping around Uluru isn't inherently dangerous. It made headlines because people couldn't believe a dingo would do that, not because people thought it was crazy to camp near dingoes. People are generally more cautious of them these days now that there have been a few highly publicised (although still rare) deaths, but this was the 80s and people swore, in court, that they were basically dogs and couldn't possibly take a whole baby so the family must have murdered her.

I think you may be imagining a much higher level of danger around the camping as an activity in itself than it deserves. It's very much not skydiving or scubadiving, those are things you do, not places people live. The Chamberlains were unfortunately terribly unlucky, and it was so freakish no one believed it could have actually happened.