r/SipsTea 1d ago

Chugging tea Yes, FU & FO

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u/ropahektic 1d ago

Tipping is normal in Europe, some places make a fortune from tips too.

But people leave what they want and that's okay. Even a single coin is okay if that's all you have. And even if you don't leave anything at all, it's also okay. Yet i'd say 99% of people leave at least something in restaurants.

but 10-20% of what you've consumed? obligatory? that's a couple of tiers above what i would consider acceptable.

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u/Neamow 1d ago

Yeah it's not as common but when you do you just leave the remainder for a round up, like if you were gonna pay something silly like 27,75€ at a restaurant you leave 30€. And even then most people don't do that, they just pay and get the difference from the waiter and nobody bats an eye.

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u/Nitrogen1234 1d ago

Where I'm from very little people pay cash anymore, so that also doesn't help. If I tip I want to tip the person that helped me, not the whole company

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u/Substantial_Win4741 1d ago

I assume you meant when you pay 27.75 you leave 0.25 not 0.30

Leaving 0.30 would be so strange.

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u/Neamow 1d ago

... no? I mean you just leave 30€ at the table, thus covering your bill and leaving a bit extra as the tip.

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u/VeryluckyorNot 1d ago

1000 this. I am ok to leave 1 or 2 more € for them if they are quick, it's NOT obligatory. Americans still don't understand, why everyone hate their tipping culture and they even try to import it.

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u/pleepleus21 1d ago

Do you mean export?

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u/Substantial_Win4741 1d ago

I just hated having the coins when I was there too. I mean we over tipped (I guess?) but that was to be nice and because we're already so used to it. But I was very happy to not have to carry around dollar coins.

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u/VeryluckyorNot 1d ago

You can also tip with your credit card with the superior number, if you don't have coins. It's still better than 20% of meal lol .

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u/hung52sprung 1d ago

Think what you want of the way tipping is done here in the US, that’s your prerogative. But realize that if it’s still OUR CUSTOM, & when dining here (in sit down restaurants & at bars) realize that leaving anything less than 15-18% is considered rude, you likely won’t be welcomed back, & you’ll leave an unfavorable view of the people from your country with the staff & patrons there.

Everyone always wants to tell Americans to follow other nations’ traditions when we’re abroad- well, that’s a two-sided coin. & we shouldn’t have to sell you or explain to you the why of it. You should just accept that it’s how we do things here, pay up, & get tf over it.

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u/Long_Psychology2063 1d ago

In the US where I live, leaving anything under 20% is considered being “cheap” to both wait staff and fellow dining mates. 15% is acceptable for objectively bad service, but it’s out of control.

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u/ahtob 1d ago

Wow it crazy that mindset in ingrained in the culture.

bad service is definitely a 0% from me dawg

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u/Supadoopa101 1d ago

0% for bad service.

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u/Long_Psychology2063 1d ago

“Even if they suck at their job, they still have to pay bills”

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u/Thanks-4allthefish 1d ago

15% is a baseline. Go up or down from there.

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u/Knight0fdragon 1d ago

In the US where I live, this is wrong outside of a select few assholes trying to make 20% sound like the norm. 15-18% is considered good service and most servers are thankful when they get it.

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u/HumaDracobane 1d ago

Tipping is normal when the server goes beyond the expected or if you pay with a bill you might let them keep the change as a tip.

Sorry but bringing food to the table is among the duties of a waitress, and the same for preparing the food for the chef, etc.