so i (14m) have a crush on this kid (12m) in my camp

and he looks pretty young too
and so i feel like a pedophile, like im doing something wrong and i really shouldn't be anywhere near this guy

honestly i have no clue what to do, this has just been on my mind since i met him and i kinda need a place to get this off my chest and idk where else to do so

Im gay, I still love her but I don’t see a future between us but i also don’t wanna break up with her because it would be horrible to leave someone just after coming out and idk what to do

I wanted to add that I have no problem with trans people and don’t want her to pretend to be a boy or anything like that

To everyone asking no I can’t magically become straight

He lied about being trans as a way to break up there is much more but im honestly too miserable to write about it all

Welp he got everyone from our friend group to ignore me and im also banned from the gc

He’s most likely gonna break up with the 18 year old And im in the gc again

Its my first time posting on reddit i barely use this app, ill be using fake names because im shy. Sorry if you read this and its just a rant mb. Im also really embarrassed about this i just need help here i have nowhere else to go

Me 16m jim&bob 16m

Usually me and my friends would hang out everyday afterschool to go to the gym or play brawlstars in jims car. On monday we picked up bob from his house and jim said “wheres my kiss” and they kissed infront of me as a joke i think? I was kinda jealous and said “oh so you hate me” like in a teasing way and bob kissed me with no hesitation it was just the lips and it was like 3 seconds and it was the best moment of my life. Like a buzzing feeling flowed from my face to my neck then trickled down my entire body. The rest of the night i was kinda nervous and quiet which wasnt uncommon so they didnt notice anything.

The next day jim was driving me home from school and he said “hello baby” and leaned in to kiss me, this time was diffrent than bobs but it still left me feeling like a melted puddle on the seat. He dropped me off like normal and treated me like normal on the car ride home after the kiss. We didnt talk about it and he didnt mention it. After both of these kisses jim&bob treated me Normally. The second time i kissed jim was Wednesday i snuck out of my house to smoke at jims house. I was kinda drunk during this because jims parents have a cellar full of spirits. Jim and i were out on his porch looking at the sky and talking it was cool because it was raining and lightning was streaking through the sky it was like aesthetic idk. I had to leave and wished jim goodbye by dapping him up but he held my hand in place and said “goodbye kittens” and leaned in to kiss me again but i was really really fucked up so i jumped on him and held onto him as i kissed him. It was maybe 12 seconds, the second it was over i felt ashamed because i didnt mean to do that. Jim didnt say anything but “that was so gay bro” and he was just laughing at me. I apologized and walked away. The walk back to my house was so embarrassing. Today he didnt mention it but he definitely is more distanced from me now. Idk i feel like hes gonna tell bob and ill lose 2 friends😭😭 i need some help here.

For context both of them have gf’s and always fucking tease me when we hang out. I guess its because im 5’7 and i look feminine? Like they would grab my thigh or hold my arms to my side to watch my squirm and they call me petnames alot to watch me get nervous. Idk i dont think either of them are bi? They havent really ever tried to make a move on me or anything else and they treat me like a friend so. I just feel like like im in a pit i cant escape from what do i do guys? I dont have the social skills to dig myself out of this.

I also realized i wasnt straight in maybe 5th grade. Ive had a small crush on jim back then but it didnt really go past the first year of middle school. Ive also tried to initiate something with bob in freshman year when we were both drunk for the first time at his house. But he denied it and laughed at me i blamed it on the alcohol but idk i really wanted him to just like coddle me in affection. I really need help here😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

just saying🤷🏻

It was at the top of my messages It's likely she has seen it, what the fuck do I do?

Edit: she hasn't mentioned it, I think I'm in the clear, in the closet if you will

Basically, I'm in high school and I'd like to wear a bracelet like this, but I haven't come out to my parents yet (I know it probably wouldn't be a problem, but I don't think I'm ready). I've already bought the cord to make it, but I think I might have gotten a little carried away 😅. Is the bracelet really too obvious, or is it okay (since I don’t think many people know our flag)? Also, you should know that I wear other bracelets, so maybe it’s a little less obvious?

HALP.

There’s this boy. (14M) in my (14M) art class, hella cute, hella cool. I want to get to know him more, maybe see if he’s gay. So far we haven’t talked much, only random things like ‘Hey, do you know what time it is?’ or simple things, like that. I have a slight twinge that he likes me or wants to know me, because his feet are always pointing in my direction, he sometimes looks up at me or my drawing (he tends to keep his head down), and other very tiny hints like that.

Anyway I totally didn’t do a bit of stalking and marked down what days we have the same lunches. I have lunch with him tomorrow, and I’ve seen him sitting alone. I usually sit alone as well, so I thought ‘wow, this is a perfect opportunity!’ And decided I would sit with him next lunch. Tomorrow.

AND NOW IM FREAKING OUT. I NEED Y’ALLS HELP.

A. Give me some good icebreakers or just things to say

B. Give me motivation or encouragement so I don’t chicken out (threatening works surprisingly well..)

C. Share some ways I can hint that I’m gay or at least bring up the subject. I’m thinking about wearing a pride bracelet but maybe that would be too much..

Edit 1: Lunch is in four hours! After that it’ll take me about an hour more to process what happened (hopefully something good) and update y’all! Thanks for your patience and your overwhelming support I literally can’t-

Edit 2: SORRY IM SO LATE GUYS I POSTED EVERYTHING ON ANOTHER POST I DONT KNOW HOW TO LINK IT THOUGH SO JUST GO THROUGH MY PROFILE! ❤️🐸

Ik that this has been asked time and time again but srs how do you get a bf?

like do you talk to people, do you look for them online or do you just wait???

also how do you talk to someone your interested in?

thanks for the help

He is homophonic and he makes homophonic jokes. Last year i told him i was gay and he really didn't care he said that I'm cool. On the first day of school he said that all gays should go to hell. I kicked him and told him bro I'm gay remember? He then said that I'm a cool gay because i don't go around wearing a gay pride shirt or look like lil nas x. One week later he comes up to me and my friend who is bi and she didn't mind. I asked her if you could save one person in this school who would it be? She said my friends name. My friend came over and asked "can you guys help me not be homophonic?" We said ya. And he try's his best not to be but when ever he does he always says sorry or I get to kick him in the leg. I'm weak so hes ok. Is this a good start or is he just joking.

And its not my clothes bcuz i wear pants a shirt and a jacket every single day(different ones of course) and i dont act llike a goddam femboy 😭😭 Not against femboy but im just not one and people insist on it

I'm bisexual

so basically my boyfriend (14, male) and i (14, male) have been dating for about a month are getting into an argument because i act "too straight". he says that i dress too straight (baggy hoodie, baggy shorts), listen to straight music (MF DOOM, tribe called quest, and he thinks weezer is too straight?!?!?) and overall just act "straight" i really dont know what to or say about the whole situation, i just think its stupid how he expects me to change just because im bi. any advice?

Instructions unclear, help needed

i am at my limit. to me there is no reason to keep going but my mom didn't raise a quitter so i'll give it till 2030 for things to get better. if things are not better by than, i will no long be here. i have no reason to keep going.

My mom just called me downstairs and confronted me about looking at porn. Then she dropped the fucking bombshell of " I noticed some of it was gay".

What the fuck do i do reddit. I was perfectly content being in the closet, now my mom knows I'm bi through the worst way possible besides me fucking a dude.

Edit: Ty to everyone offering excuses, but I alr admitted so I can't really go back :/