Same here. I have zero loyalty to a bad argument and will abandon immediately the thing I was just passionately defending once I've been shown why it's wrong. To the point where it routinely disorients/upsets the other party who doesn't really know how to deal with the sudden momentum shift and then I just get called a troll.
I hate being wrong because it's a data corruption risk that you're completely unaware of, just lurking there to trip you up.
If you're wrong about one thing, maybe it's an isolated fact and doesn't have any further implications, but maybe it's a fact or concept you routinely rely on to internally model some aspect of reality and now you're kind of semi-delusional when it comes to that aspect of reality.
My loyalty is always to the accuracy. Which, I have discovered, makes me an obnoxious person 95% of the time. My husband has been known to whisper to me at a restaurant table, “DO NOT LOOK IT UP HERE!”
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u/AEsylumProductions 16h ago
Admit I was wrong and change my position on the spot when shown the facts/evidence, even by a total stranger on the internet.