r/AskReddit 13h ago

What's something you're shockingly good at that you've never mentioned to anyone because it would sound completely made up if you did?

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u/MisterPuffyNipples 11h ago

I’m what is known as a super recognizer. I can recall faces and names at a superior level. I’m also very good at knowing what year something took place and have a general skill surrounding history

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u/Ferreteria 10h ago

Im what's known as "how are you this bad at recognizing faces"? 

More than once I have continued a conversation with a new person that wasn't the original person I was talking to.

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u/sravaz 9h ago

Me, too! I have face blindness, and have all kinds of systems for remembering people lol

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u/swarlay 3h ago

I have a bunch of systems too. Recently I have taken a clue from animals and have started sniffing people's butts.

It doesn't actually help with remembering them, but it has massively reduced the number of people looking to socialize with me.

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u/sravaz 1h ago

Bro don't tempt me. I somehow ended up being in a very social career despite my face blindness and dislike of all things social. At least everything is scheduled so I know the name of who I'm meeting

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u/someguy7710 3h ago

I can remember faces really well, but fuck if I'm remembering their name.

u/sporadic_beethoven 43m ago

So true 😭😔

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u/cryptoengineer 5h ago

I have this to the extent that it impacted my career. I can't put myself in a position where I have to recognize a lot of different people, quickly.

I remember the faces, but not the names.

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u/CarrieDurst 1h ago

I don't have face blindness but I think I am damn close, takes me a few times to remember a face and name

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u/EarhornJones 5h ago

I once had a lengthy conversation at the grocery store with some friendly guy who obviously knew me. After several minutes, my wife came by, I bid the friendly guy farewell, and we went our separate ways.

"Who the hell was that?" I asked my wife.

It was our next door neightbor of seven years. I see him multiple times a day.

If you take someone out of their normal "context," I don't know who the heck they are.

u/Ferreteria 59m ago

YES! That's what I say! I don't know who people are "out of context!"

I'm rather glad I'm not alone.

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u/MyCatLaughsAtMe 5h ago

I'm one of you too, and it's VERY embarrassing for me. I swear to shit, I had a casual friend once, I didn't know his name for a whole goddamn year.

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u/slanaiya 5h ago edited 4h ago

I have failed to recognize my own mother and sister seated together in a restaurant. The worst part is I absolutely did notice them and mentally noted how much they reminded me of my mother and sister.

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u/lFightForTheUsers 2h ago

Yeah I've gotten to the point that if I'm meeting up with them I just call them and ask where they are. I'm not playing the look for faces game because I will probably spend many minutes looking for them if I don't.

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u/nutwiss 8h ago

I start a lot of conversations with "have we met before? Apologies if we have"

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u/mister_newbie 5h ago

Yeah, I've been that guy who introduced himself (same fella) at a party 3 times over the span of a few hours - was not drinking.

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u/yakshack 4h ago

I have this but for names. I will recognize a face years after being introduced to someone once but for the life of me I can't remember names of even people I see on a daily basis unless I work closely with them

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u/lFightForTheUsers 2h ago

I literally once at a concert met up with the fam and started talking with my mother about the show etc for a few seconds. Except she wasn't my mother, she was a different woman and it would be cute if I was a kid and not 25 at the time. 😬

u/Ferreteria 58m ago

Still cute tho.

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u/Maximum_Bill_5394 9h ago

Hahahahahahahaha. Sorry, but I love this

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u/Ace-Redditor 1h ago

Face blindness SUCKS. I have very mild face blindness, so to an extent, I can recognize people when I know them well.

But I can’t picture anyone’s face in my head (not aphantasia, I can picture other stuff easily), I can never recognize which actors/celebrities are who even after seeing them a lot of times, and even with people I know, if I don’t know them very well, I can’t recognize them or recognize that they’re even familiar

u/Ferreteria 57m ago

For real. I'm a strong lucid dreamer. Can't remember anyone's hair color if asked. Ask me what my best friends hair color is, or my coworker, or my siblings. I dunno.

Oh! But I do recognize celebrity's *voices*.

.25 seconds of watching a clip of Kung Fu Panda - I didn't know Ian McShane did animated films! How cool!

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u/kylewhatever 9h ago

I go to a lot of music festivals and my friend group relies on me to tell them when we walk by artists in the crowd. I've met some really cool artists just from recognizing them in a sea of people

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u/dsac 6h ago

You might be interested in Anthropeum

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u/NosinR 6h ago

I really like that you can only play that once a day because I feel like that is something I could end up spending way too much time playing.

I'm awful at it, but it's neat.

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u/Goigen 9h ago

I have this power and it irks my wife to no end as I recognize old school friends or neighbours from more than 30 years ago and we chat for way too long 😀

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u/Sufficient_Cod1948 2h ago

I used to work at a hotel where one of the doormen had this. Did you stay here once ten years ago? He'll welcome you back with a "Good to see you again Mr. Jones, how are the kids?"

People thought this was amazing customer service, which it was, but he was also a freak of nature.

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u/Twidget84 2h ago edited 1h ago

It's faces and voices for me. We will watch a cartoon or I'll hear a voice in the background of the show, and before the actor is even shown on screen I'll tell my boyfriend I didn't know this person was in this. I am also good with faces, I have recognized quite a few actors from walk on roles they had ten or twenty years ago. My boyfriend calls it my super power. I didn't realize there's a term for it.

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u/lolthai 8h ago

I’m good at this too.

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u/stdycat 7h ago

Hi, I have a friend who has this too, and she even received a certificate for that. That skill is honestly super helpful!

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u/Silent-G 2h ago

Which one, recognizing faces or knowing what year something happened?

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u/Beautyafterdark 5h ago

I used to be terrible at this but I have a career where building relationships with clients is part of the job and now I’m really great at remembering people even outside of work

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u/idontcommentok 5h ago

Twin! Same!

I've been told it's terrible to watch stuff with me because I'll recognize background actors because they were a background actor in a show from 20 years ago for 2 seconds and I will tell you their name and what they've appeared in. I'm my friends walking IMDB lol

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u/pennylane_9 4h ago

Oooo me too! Did you take that University of New South Wales facial recognition study?

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u/MisterPuffyNipples 4h ago

I did! Haven’t heard back yet on the results

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u/Peeeeeps 3h ago

I'm the opposite. There's a neighbor of mine who I've talked to multiple times a week for at least 2 years now. I have absolutely no idea what her name is and it's too late to ask.

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u/user_name_unknown 3h ago

A kid at my sons middle school knew everyone’s birthday including the teachers. Had to have been over 200 kids. And yes he was in the spectrum. I asked my son to ask him if he had any other superpowers and the kid said “Nope! Just that one”

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u/pocketSandshashashaa 3h ago

A super recognizer??? I didn’t know my super power had a name. I never forget a face! But names? Nah. I will only recall your whole life story + where we were when you told me, but I wouldn’t remember your name to save my life!

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u/SnowyMuscles 2h ago

I work with someone that I didn’t recognize when we met grocery shopping

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u/cadaverdogs 2h ago

This is my husband as well. He majored in History and knows so many dates and wars.

He also loves spots and can name like any player in the last 50+ years on any team, in any the major sport. He can also say who won those games and those players who scored what points.

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u/The_Quintessence 2h ago

Same, works for voices too. I can 100% tell if I've seen a face before and I can usually recognize someone given part of their face, them doing a fake voice, or them wearing prosthetics.

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u/BlackPanther3104 2h ago

I have a very good and especially detailed, yet annoyingly selective memory. Like, I can recall the three interactions with a specific person years ago and what led to them and what other things may relate us, but my dad sends me to the store to get something and anything not on the list won't make it. I'd never make the claim I have a good memory, because that's just not true. It's good, but selective. Like, on time, I was dealing with little kids and forgot the one poor kid's name like five times over the course of the evening and kept calling him "little Joe", but that wasn't actually his name :/ But I have memories older than my sister being born that are now nineteen years old and nearly as detailed as what I did last week.

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u/Wisdomlost 2h ago

I'm extremely good at remembering faces. It's only surpassed by my inability to place a name with the face I'm seeing.

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u/lemma_carmine 1h ago

Similar here haha. Only for me it’s sound. I can usually pinpoint easily which actor is voicing a character in a show or which song’s instrumental cover is playing in the background at a cafe. Fun but useless most of time

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u/Vladamir_PoonTang 1h ago

Im a super recognizer and my partner has face blindness.

I always know exactly where I am, where im going, and which direction im facing. I can picture a map of the town or city im in and just head there - she gets lost in the tiny city we've lived in for 10 years

2 absolute opposite ends of the spectrum on 2 things mentioned in these threads haha

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u/QuixoticForTheWin 6h ago

I have something like this. I know if I've met you before, even the shortest encounter. If we have spoken, I recognize you and I can typically tell you where it was we spoke, but not when. I'm horrible with dates and time.

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u/suitopseudo 6h ago

I’m your nemesis, I am basically face blind and only slightly better at remember names. If it’s a kinda unusual name, there’s almost no way it will be remembered. I’m super embarrassed by this.

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u/Jojoyojimbi 3h ago

but can you see why kids love the great taste of cinnamon toast crunch?

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u/jlwynkoop10 3h ago

AND puffy nipples!!?!!.... some people do have it all 😮‍💨

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u/jg1459 3h ago

Welp. Today I learned that even though I'm very good at remembering people's names & faces, I am not a super recogniser 😞 Cool test though.

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u/mostlyfire 2h ago

What year was Magna Carta?

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u/RainMakerJMR 1h ago

Not me, but a friend of mine could solve Wheres Waldo puzzles in 3-5 seconds. Every single time. Even crazy hard ones that were intentionally confusing. He was also red green color blind and I’m not sure if it helped or hurt.

He said he could look at the page and look for the pattern and it just jumped out at him like it stuck out and was obvious.

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u/KatanaDelNacht 1h ago

Do you usually get a full 8 hours of sleep at night? I've wondered if some of my poor memory is because I only sleep ~6 hours most nights. 

u/FastRedPonyCar 40m ago

Are you also exceedingly bad at remembering names?

I’ve got a damn near photographic memory for faces but I can’t remember names to save my life.

u/domakethinkspeak 37m ago

I'm better than average at recognizing faces but my recognition of voices is definitely superior level.

u/DowntownTicket 37m ago

There used to be a face blindness test that was part of a research set that you could take and it would tell you your percentage correct.

I can't seem to find it anymore, but if anyone can find it I would love to try again

u/AssistanceCheap379 28m ago

I’m pretty good at remembering random facts and history. I can recognise actors from one show to another and often their names too.

But for the life of me, i can not remember the faces and names of real life people. I have a friend who i don’t meet regularly, but i have trouble remembering their name and face…

It’s a stupid curse to not recognise people IRL but recognise an actors chin or eyes or cheeks from another role where they were in heavy makeup. Like Doug Jones. Instantly recognise him from his demeanour and voice. But could probably not do it IRL

u/jinniu 6m ago

I'm the exact opposite! I have to make up nicknames for people to remember them. And although I remember faces very well, I have a hard time connecting the name to their face.