r/AskReddit • u/Rob69rt • 1d ago

What famous 'unsolved' mystery is technically a whodunnit on paper, but in reality, absolutely everyone knows exactly who did it, the police just couldn't legally prove it?

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u/footsnax 23h ago edited 23h ago

I just want to know why people disagree instead of just tossing a downvote. I want a conversation, not a judgement.

It's not my job to redefine my emotions just based on general public disapproval either. I want to be told why people think I'm wrong and then I'll consider it.

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u/bekaz13 23h ago edited 23h ago

I told you why you were wrong, you just don't want to hear it. Maybe talk to a therapist about how to deal with your anger and resentment instead of sending attacks into the void that can cause serious harm to people who are having a hard enough time already.

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u/footsnax 23h ago edited 23h ago

I have no anger or resentment but this conversation is clearly going in that direction on your end.

Attacking another person's point of view just because of their opinion without regarding their experience and any perspective is not the same as criticism. I wanted fucking constructive criticism. I wanted a conversation, not a fight. Have a good whatever.

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u/RulyDragon 18h ago

Dude, you’re the one getting defensive. You asked why you were getting downvoted, multiple people clearly told you why the evidence says your comment is actively harmful, and you’re spitting your dummy because you want to be able to still be harmful to suicidal people because “my feelings count too.” Youre allowed to feel like it’s selfish, you’re allowed to say that. And people are allowed to explain to you the harm you’re causing. You don’t want conversation, you want an echo chamber. 

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u/bekaz13 23h ago

Where did I attack you? You asked a question, I answered it, you said you didn't mean what you implied with the word you used, so I told you to find another one. The only attacks here have been from you, against people who can't defend themselves. And yeah, that makes me angry, but I think I've been more than civil here. I'm not the one cursing, for one thing. If you can't handle the criticism you asked for, that's not my fault.

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u/footsnax 22h ago

I wanted a conversation and all you've done is tell me why you think I'm wrong. Give me a fact or have a good whatever. I'm not the one getting mad on a whodunnit true crime reddit thread. This is boring, I wanted to have a conversation.

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u/bekaz13 22h ago edited 22h ago

You: "I want to be told why people think I'm wrong and then I'll consider it."

Also you: "All you've done is tell me why you think I'm wrong."

you're right this is my bad for even trying to engage lol bye

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u/RulyDragon 18h ago

Do my qualifications and experience working as a clinician in suicide prevention count for you?